Paige #11

 1) How have your initial perceptions of your host family changed since you first arrived?  

When I initially arrived at my house I was nervous that the family would not be welcoming towards me. When I learned that they had other host children I felt much better about the situation. My perception of them having multiple Alma students was that they would want to take us around the city and show us Quito. I have been very surprised that they have not wanted to do this yet. I am not sure if this is just because they did not get a schedule of our activities so they are unsure or if they are too busy to take us around the city. 

I had previously believed that the family would have been very active; yet, I am surprised to find that once they get back from school they head up to their rooms and change into pajamas. They all climb into bed and watch TV together until dinner time. This surprised me so much! I thought that they would do more family things, but at the same time in the U.S. families all over do not spend all their free time together. 

The first night we were sitting at the dinner table and I truthfully understood very little of the conversation. I worried the entire trip would be like that. I feared that I would not feel included as a member of the family, or that the family would be disappointed in my terrible Spanish. But it has been amazing and I feel completely included in everything. Both the parents slow down and repeat things when I need them to, which helps immensely. 

2) What was the most important contribution you made at Neque today and why?


Today at Neque I was able to spend some quality time with the older children upstairs. While we made crafts and helped the students with their homework, I felt the contribution of me encouraging the children was the most important I made today. I would hot glue a leaf on a popsicle stick for them. But I let them choose where to place it. The teacher told me to just do it but I felt that I should give these children some freedom with their craft. I would give them a high five, a smile or just rub their back to encourage them. I do not want to assume these children are not given love and attention at home. However, if I can provide that comfort and encouragement for a small part of their day I feel as if I have made a contribution. 

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